Are You Ready To


Your Life?

Don’t you just know

that there’s more?

Don’t you just know that it’s possible to have more, do more, be more, experience more?

More joy, more love, more hope, more success, more freedom, more healing, more peace, more safety, just more?

Don’t you just know that where you’re at is not all that there is?

Don’t you just know that there’s more?

Are you ready to reclaim your life?



 I can help you do it!

Hi, I’m Aideen T. Finnola, but you can call me Aidy.

I'm A Martha Beck-Trained Life Coach, Speaker, and Author.

I’m an unapologetic and empowered survivor of and thriver after physical, emotional, psychological, and religious abuse. I’m a straight spouse and an ex-community kid (I was raised in a cult).

I’m unapologetic, meaning I don’t mince words about abuse!

I don’t make excuses for my abusers and say things like “They meant well and I know they loved me.” There was a time in my life when I said these things but I have learned that these statements minimize and invalidate the abuse that I have suffered.

I’m empowered, meaning I don’t live my life with a victim mentality. I was victimized, but I am not a victim! I don’t let the abuse that have I suffered limit me, nor do I use it as an excuse to settle for less than everything that I want for myself and out

of my life. I have reclaimed my life. I want to help you

reclaim yours.




Are You Ready To Reclaim Your Life?

I coach clients who are ready to reclaim their lives from a Mixed Orientation Relationship (MOR), from involvement in extreme, repressive, and abusive religious groups/churches (or from both—I’ve been amazed at how much overlap there is between the two), and clients who are ready to make a quantum leap forward in the reclaiming of their lives.

You are a warrior; you may be wounded, but you're still fighting! You may have doubts about whether it can get better but you're willing to give it everything you've got to reclaim your life!

As your coach, I will create a safe space for you to rest, rebuild, and reclaim your life. I understand because I’ve been where you are! I was once the most fallen down soldier on the battlefield of my life and I figured out how to reclaim my life. Experience is the best teacher and I have so much to teach you from my experience! I will be your strongest supporter, loudest cheerleader, and your partner in success. Why? Because I think you’re a BADASS for going through what you’ve gone through! And because it’s time for you to move forward…


Straight Up!



Are You Ready

To Reclaim Your Life

From a MOR?

It Really Does

Get Better!

Leaving Your


Are You Ready

To Reclaim

Your Sacred Self?

You Can Heal!

Exquisite Purple



Are You Ready To Make A Quantum Leap In Your Life?

You Can Realize Your Dreams!

Wanna learn more about my unique and inspirational life story?
Check out my new book
My Exquisite Purple Life
It’s a collection of stories from my life that share the many challenges I’ve faced and the wisdom I’ve gained through healing my pain.
It reveals the techniques and realizations that aided my transformation, offering encouragement,  hope, and inspiration!

For me, reclaiming my life

 is an ongoing process.

I am, have always been, and always will be obsessed with trying to figure life out! I most certainly haven't figured it out yet and probably never will. But I'm constantly discovering new insights from living my reclaimed life with empowerment. And I love sharing those insights with you!


I invite you to learn along with me because the human experience is meant to be collaborative. After all, that's why I wrote my book in the first place! For my latest nuggets of wisdom and insight, check out my video blog.

What Are You Waiting For?

Are you ready...

to take the first steps

toward reclaiming

your life?


I’m here for you!

Let's do it!


Schedule a complimentary

30 minute Connection Conversation

with me now!

Wanna start reclaiming

your life today? 

Check out my

signature program:

Reclaiming Your Mind,

One Practical Step at a Time. 


Now available as an audio download with workbook.

Check out my

resources page


for free resources

that I’ve created

for you along with

my recommendations

for other authors

and teachers

who have helped me

on my path

to reclaim my life.