I coach people who have discovered that they are in a relationship with a closeted LGBT person and people who are recovering from religious extremism...

Recovering from a mixed orientation relationship (MOR) is a tricky journey because your family, friends, and the general public often do not understand the finer nuances of your MOR wounds. The people in your life may mean well, but they very likely lack understanding of your MOR experience. Their lack of understanding can lead them to say and do well-meaning things that are actually ignorant, hurtful, and make your recovery journey harder. Sadly, so many straight spouses are left to repair their MOR wounds and rebuild new lives for themselves without effective support and professional guidance.

As a straight spouse myself, I intuitively understand the finer nuances of your MOR wounds. You do not have to waste time trying to explain your situation to me. I will not ask you ignorant and hurtful question like "Are you sure he/she is gay?" or "How did you not know?". I will understand you. I will believe you. I will support you. I will hold a safe space for you to express all that you are experiencing and offer you wisdom and insight to guide you on your healing journey.

My personal life experience + professional training give me unique, specialized, and expert insight into these confusing, difficult, and painful experiences.

Recovering from religious extremism is a tricky journey because, when you leave an extreme religious group, you leave behind your primary support system and social community. Unless friends and/or family left the group with you, you will feel ostracized, alone, and unsupported. Most people in “the world” don’t understand the unique abuse that goes on in an extreme religious group. Most people will either reject you as a freak or have a voyeuristic fascination with your involvement in an extreme religious group. Either way, so many people, who are recovering from religious extremism, are left to repair their religious wounds and rebuild new lives for themselves without effective support and professional guidance.

Having been raised in an extreme religious group, I intuitively understand the finer nuances of your religious wounding. You do not have to waste time trying to explain your situation to me. I will not anxiously implore you not to abandon all faith and belief. I will not fear for the fate of your immortal soul. I will understand you. I will believe you. I will support you. I will hold a safe space for you to find your own way and support you on your healing journey.

I work with clients by referral only. To inquire about coaching with me, please email me at aideen@aideentfinnola.com and tell me how you heard of me and why you want to coach with me.

MY COACHING PACKAGES

Six Session Package

  • 6 (1-hour) one-on-one coaching sessions

  • Investment: $1350

Eight Session Package

  • 8 (1-hour) one-on-one coaching sessions

  • 1 lifeline*

  • Investment: $1800

Ten Session Package

  • 10 (1-hour) one-on-one coaching sessions

  • 2 lifelines*

  • Investment: $2250

Coaching packages must be used within the number of months equal to the number of sessions purchased. Ex: a ten-session package expires ten months after date of purchase.
 

*A lifeline is available when you encounter a tough situation or crisis and would like immediate coaching. You can reach out to me through email or Facebook messenger and  I will schedule a half hour coaching session with you within 24 hours. If you do not use your Lifeline(s) by the end of your coaching contract, you can covert it into a regular coaching session.

878-222-0432
 

aideen@aideentfinnola.com
 

Linthicum Heights, Maryland